Tired

I seem to have lost in energy & direction. Does finding a gf and planning for business at the same time an unattentable situation? Provide me with wisdom,pls.
I think finding a gf 1st may gives you motivation & direction, while having a business before gf may not put you in focus as you are always thinking of gals.

I have one more time failed in targeting a gal, talk to her and make her happy. Am I too serious or am i out of focus? I think i venture too much, that i didnt target anyone, thus a loss in direction. Secondly, i think too highly of myslef. It is as though i have a golden mouth. I need to change. Be an proactive. Talk to gals, understand them, treat them as a new friend!